My Vagina Has Trust Issues

and Frankly,Same

At this stage in life, my vagina doesn’t want to be surprised.
No sudden moves. No enthusiastic fingers thinking they're 25 again. No “just relax” from someone who doesn’t have to relax their own pelvic floor.

Honestly?
She’s been through a lot—hormones ghosting her, dryness like the Mojave, and the audacity of medical providers telling her to use lube and…